by Teresa Greenleaf What is unconditional love? How to understand that this is unconditional love?
Unconditional love or unconditional love without requirements is true love—something you can not buy. Unconditional love is a conscious choice to love despite external obligations. You owe nothing to the partner, and he/she owes nothing to you.
Psychologists argue that only a person who primarily practices unconditional love with himself can have such a relationship. If you know that you are worthy of love and value, first of all, yourself, you will not depend on your partner in the sense of self-esteem.
Signs of unconditional love
- You recognize your shortcomings, and your partner accepts them.
- You only tell the truth, even if it is unpleasant.
- You can forgive.
- You do not find fault with trifles and try to find the healthiest solution.
- You do not constantly feel like on an exam because you do not need to prove your love all the time.
- In the presence of a partner, you can completely relax and be yourself.
- You are a team in good and dark times.
- Your partner is always by your side.
- Your partner does not just listen when you talk about your worries; he/she encourages you to do so.
- You do not manipulate each other.
- You show patience and compassion for your partner when he/she is going through difficult times, and you do not know that his/her temporary bad mood needs to be perceived personally.
- You know that you want to be together for a long time. You want to grow old with your partner and are ready to live together— regardless of what awaits you in the future.
Unfortunately, such love is a rather rare case. However, it is 100 percent worth looking for. We wish you to meet your Mr./Mrs. Right and stay tuned for our new posts.
